i got stucked at the pre 1.1.1 upgrade step and the upgrading step

i went on and tried to deactiate my iphone, however, in the middle of the deactivation of phone, (using independance) i thought it was jammed, so i went and hold on the home and sleep button. there was a success message, but now, i cant do anyting through independance to my iphone!!

i am now trying to virginise my iphone or try to master reset.

is there any way i can solve all of this by just goin back to square one? can i undo all the mess??

ca anybody please help me out of this mess im in??

any help would be much appreciated