Ok so this is what I'm trying to do.

I use Beejive on my iPhone which is pretty great, I'd like to leave it always logged in but the problem is, if I'm using my computer and having a conversation with someone the IM's are gonna show up on the computer fine, but they're also gonna send push notifications to my phone, meaning that while having a conversation my phone is gonna have a seizure and turn on and vibrate like 100+ times while having a conversation.

The obvious answer is to just log out of Beejive when I'm at the computer but that gets annoying after a while, I'm wondering if there is a way that I can automate this process somehow or maybe there is just something I'm overlooking. Is there another app for the iPhone that would handle this better?

Is it possible to have my IM's just go to the iPhone when I'm logged off on my desktop?

Thanks in advance