k I'm gonna simplify this for u andy...pay attention!!
Step 1. Call your friend and ask him to bring his iPhone with him.
Step 2. Download ziphone 2.5
Step 3. Go to ur kitchen, make tea...for yourself and ur friend...always be a good host....its a good thing.
Step 4. Wait for your not so punctual friend.
Step 5. Once he comes over, inform him about the importance of being punctual in life...
Step 6. Take his prized iphone from him, ask him to trust that u are the One.
Step 7. Connect his phone to itunes via usb. Dont add, prepare or remove anything. Straight fon his pocket or hand or whatever...

Step 8. Hit the restore button. You may want to setup his iphone as a new iphone on itunes before u hig restore. That way u can sync everything important back to your iphone after ur done upgrading to 1.1.4. Things like your calendar dates and entries, contacts, bookmarks wont be lost. U can simply restore these after the upgrade.
Step 9. Chill out a bit. Drink that tea u made, give some to ur friend. Joke about wiseasses and how dumb they actually are. Do all this till your restore completes.
Step 10. Quit itunes, run ziphone and hit the do it all button.
Step 11. Chill out a little more. Enjoy ur existence and all u have, and all that u'll aquire.
Step 12. Unplug your newly upgraded iphone. Feel good about life. Show off
to women. Generally enjoy!!
Step 13. Try and forgive my blasphemy.
