Ok.....not cured....BUT i *think* i may have a plan at least. from
that link you gave me
i i downloaded the trial version of the diskaid software, and was able to look in my folder for 2 mins. so with that in mind, i'm going to try the following steps -
Read all steps before you begin. Step 1 and 2 (and step 3 and 4 later on) have to be completed in a few minutes since your phone will probably reboot after some time.
1.) First connect your phone to the Computer via cable and switch it on. Open up the free application DiskAid and make sure your phone is found. Then quickly change the small selector at the bottom left to “Root Folder”. Use “Copy to folder” to save the folder “mobilewatchdog.bundle” at “/System/Library/SystemConfiguration/” to you Computer. You will need this folder later again!
2.) Now delete the folder “mobilewatchdog.bundle” on the device by using the “Delete from Device” button.
Basically you delete the startup of a system daemon that will check every 2-3 minutes if Springboard could be loaded. If Springboard is not loaded “mobilewatchdog” would reboot your phone. Deleting this process will prevent the system from rebooting every 2-3 minutes. Still, every 10 minutes or so the system will still reboot by another process that cannot be deleted. But this 10 minutes should be enough to get your Springboard preferences restored
THEN, instead of installing open ssh, as i already have it installed......i will try to locate and remove the apps that i put in there yesterday which caused this ruckus to begin with.
THEN will proceed with the rest of the steps -
6.) Reboot again and copy the “mobilewatchdog.bundle” files back to their location (/System/Library/SystemConfiguration/) by using DiskAid again or by using an SFTP client and the SSH login.
7.) Make sure you login via SSH and set the correct permissions of the files! If you do not do so the phone will still reboot every 10-12 minute since “mobilewatchdog.bundle” cannot be loaded at startup of the phone! enter these 3 commands when logged into your phone:
chmod 755 /System/Library/SystemConfiguration/mobilewatchdog.bundle
chmod 755 /System/Library/SystemConfiguration/mobilewatchdog.bundle/mobilewatchdog
chmod 644 /System/Library/SystemConfiguration/mobilewatchdog.bundle/Info.plist
If the files were put on the right location there should be no error message.
8.) Reboot again.
Now, my question is this..... how do you correctly enter the commands for chmod? i'm thinking that either i had an app that was not compatable, as you said, or perhaps i had made in error when setting up commands. so maybe it's best i have THAT clarified so i make SURE i know how to enter any command correctly in the future.
yea...thats true...but it's finding the way that works that's the challenge....but if i can get this thing to cooperate, i wuill try this workaround..... u've at least given me a new plan of action...as i was completely out of ideas before!
hmm another thing is that i had accidently placed a file into the MobileInstallation.frameworkfolder...if i can get that out and delete it, i wonder if that will help.
i will not forget to thank u a few times for this

and i will also consider purchasing the disk aid thing. that article u gave me the linki to..... well...i could not buy enough time with the folder deletion to do moot ( i was hoping if i removed the wonky stuff i put in yesterday, i could save it from having to be restored)...BUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT i WAS able to buy enough time to get it into DFU mode, and restore it. i will have to re-download all my stuff from cydia, but i broke the cycle and it won't be a loss after all. thank you soooo much! it's a small price to pay compared to the other possibilites. ill download the other stuff when i bored or sumthing hahaha

and ill find a way to back up my cydia and icy apps next time. PS - you wouldn't also happen to know a way one could play embedded media from websites (im not talking like yotube or hulu or whatever...there r some sites that have streaming tv stuff that i'd like to play....i have imobile cinema, but that doesn't pick it up, and nothing else seems to either. i posted my question about it on another thread.