Swirly mms sending but not receiving

[mwr_allen]

I installed swirly mms on my O2 contract iPhone 3G 2.1 firmware with the below settings but it seems to be sending messages but when I use my wife's 1st gen iPhone to send a message to my 3G iPhone I only get a text telling me that I have received a media message but swirly will not receive it in the inbox.

Settings:-
MMSC: mmsc.mms.o2.co.uk:8002
Proxy: 193.113.200.195.8080
APN: wap.o2.co.uk
Username: o2wap
Password: password

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UserAgent: iPhone

Can anyone help.

Thanks.

[PorkBoy]

I'm pretty sure O2 have to enable mms on your account and because they know the iphone doesn't do mms they won't. At least thats what I was told on the three occaisions I tried to get it sorted.

[mwr_allen]

I had swirly mms working and receiving messages before I upgraded from the 1st gen iPhone to 3G so I dont know why it wont work now, also it should not make any difference to O2 if I jailbroke my iPhone because it would only void warranty and I didnt purchase insurance when I bought the phone anyway.

Anyway I sent an email to O2 about it because there's a problems with the website sending mms settings so I'm waiting to hear back from them.