ok working now. This will give you access to safariDL folder in MobileFinder. make a symlink of the mobile/Library/Downloads folder INTO the MobileFinder's Documents folder (in other words delete the mobile/Library/Downloads folder and make it a symlink). Call it something like Downloads, or whatever. Make SURE you set the owner to root and group to mobile and permissions of the Download folder and link to 777. I used iCommander to change the permissions. It didn't work until I did it with iCommander. Hope this helps someone.
Note: It stopped working again. Im not sure why. Will continue to work on it.
