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Personally, I'm black, and I could care less. The thing is, most black people are quite to call white people "cracker", or spanish people "wet-backs", etc. etc. .. yet once someone calls them the N word, they go all psycho, and claim emotional duress. Get over it. You can't have it both ways. If you're offended by a word, don't use it. Back in the day, slaves called themselves the N word, as a term of endearment, in order to take a negative term, and try to bring themselves together during the hardship. After the ordeal though, they didn't continue on calling themselves the word. I just think it's ignorant, regardless of who says it, especially when saying it in a demeaning manner. If you're saying it matter-o-factly, I still have an issue, but it's whatever. I can't deny that the word hasn't slipped off of my tongue in conversations with my comrades, though it's just so ingrained in us now, that it's really terribly hard to stop. Vocal inflection has a lot to do with how it is taken too. My "white" friends use the term towards me, but with a definition of "friend", or "buddy", or someone close in general. I just hate it when people are so quite to use the idioms, and then get upset when someone else does as well. *shrug* .. /rant
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