Does anybody know how to change the color of the buttons to the gray graphite theme without actually having to use the theme. I love the default color scheme of the menu and loading bar and so on, but the only thing I want to change are those pesky red, green and yellow buttons to the graphite ones but leave the rest of the system scheme to the aqua style. Soooo any of you know how?? I'm currently running Mountain Lion.

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