okay, i'll try those methods, i just assumed bc it says MMS on in options that I didn't have to update any files like that or still call att and make them think i have a mms phone like before 3.0
Yeah although the setting is already there you will still have to phone AT&T, which is proving extremely difficult i hear as they are under orders from Apple not to provision it until official release.
Have a look through this thread for advice and answers