so confused also

[MaryKayM]

I got an iphone 16 gig as a gift. I am trying to follow instructions to modify the icons and pictures but have lost some pieces I think. I downloaded and ran iLiberty, and it showed the cracked apple and put everything back. That was fine. Then I downloaded and ran ibrickr. But it gave me an error as it was checking my phone that I didn't have an installer. I also downloaded the ipod restore hardware 1.14 but don't know what to do with it. I found the winstaller, but cannot download because it gives me a bad link. Is this what I need? Sorry to be so ignorant but could somebody please list out EXACTLY what I need to do and in what order? Thanks so much. I just wanted to change the icons and ringtones.

[NetMage]

Try posting in the right forum.