bought wife a 3gs, 4.1 unlocked and jailbroken on new bb with new redsnow
well she went to log into apple store and it had someones old password, anyways she went into settings on phone and did a reset i guess thinking she was going to erase all the data, now its stuck at apple logo screen
You didn't have to do a reset, you should have sync with Itunes (log in to your account), then the new account will appear on the iphone.
Now you have to restore again.