i need to get a couple songs off the phone that wont sync to itunes for some reason but i cant find the directory where they are stored on the phone, does anyone know where it is?
It's not that simple. If I remember correctly it's stored in chunks on the phone. You're going to have to use something more than a filebrowser. If you're on Windows try iPhone PC Suite. It's in Chinese but you can delete all the language files and then it will be in English.