My message icon doesnt change with the rest of the theme?
I jailbroke my iphone the other day so i am abit of a newbie with all this stuff but i found a theme [iElegance] which i really like and on the screenshots the message icon is different to mine.
Are you currently running any other Winterboard themes "higher" than iElegance that contain a Messages icon? If you're not sure, move iElegance to the top of the list in Winterboard and see if that changes the Messages icon.
I just looked at the contents of the Icons folder...I do not see any icon for Messages. The one for biteSMS would work. Just navigate to Library/Themes/iElegance.theme/Icons and copy or rename "biteSMS.png" to "Messages.png"
You can download iFile on Cydia and do it right on your iPhone. Or, if you are using a PC, you can download iPhoneBrowser and make the changes via the computer.