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You called your own Son a noob?
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Well, I know the one thing any of my kids hates is to be considered a "noob". So if I tell one of them that they get the message better than if it was some tight-***** neurotic parent telling them they "should" do something. They also reserve the right to call me on something they see as dumb. i have quite often been asked if I'm "retarded". Sometimes they are right and other times they aren't. Either way I will either own up to my faux-pas, or tell them they are off target and why.
In a family of "hypocrisy detectors", we are forced to be genuine with each other. The reward is having kids that actually RESPECT us for being truthful and honest and return the same honesty to us.
Needless to say we have a very unconventional family that laughs a lot but the kids do the right thing most of the time because it is the right thing, not becuse someone told them to do it.