As you all know, the only way to change this is to go into Settings/Mail.../(scroll down)/click "Load Remote Images" and exit. Lots of clicks to change something that would be a very useful toggle. The option to manually load images is actually promised in the iOS 3 User Guide, but this is erroneous. It's probably impossible to mod the mail app itself, but perhaps a toggle could be done, whether in SBSettings or as a standalone app? If anyone can do this I'd be very grateful. Thanks all!